DISQUS

Jenny · 5 years ago

I'm so sorry:cry:...Know that things will get better. :???: Take care of yourself.

Dell · 5 years ago

I am so sorry... I wish I knew what to say.

Sara 观星 · 5 years ago

Oh sweetie. =\ Some guys can't deal with tears even if they do love you.

You and Cae will have the family that both of you deserve--even if it's just the two of you. You're gonna be the best darned mom you can be to that little girl, and that's all that counts.

Trust me- I grew up with a dad that was an idiot to my mom, and spent my entire life wishing she'd get divorced so she could be happy.

James · 5 years ago

Stacey, hang in there babe. I might not always have the smartest advice on things, but I'm gonna try. You can apologize all you want to Caelyn, but the fact of the matter is, you don't have to. You're a loving mom with a supportive family and that's what's gonna be most important. It also sounds like she has a daddy who loves her too. I think some people make a mistake by staying together for the sake of the kids, even though they're not happy. And kids are sooooo smart. They sense that stuff. I think Caelyn (if I can assume here) would like it better in the long run if her momma was happy. Even though you and the father aren't together, that doesn't prevent you guys from being friendly with each other and loving parents to her.
So, wipe away those tears babe. Don't cry for what you can't give her, just strive to do the best at what you CAN give her. Keep being a great mom and Caelyn will be as happy as can be.

ginger · 5 years ago

I know this totally sucks for you right now, but you did the right thing. If you know that this was 100% what you needed to do, then doing it "just for the baby" would just prolong any problems in the future. You will find someone you CAN give 100% to, and then it will be great. I'm so sorry about your bad night. You are too sweet to have to go through stuff like that. :( Feel better soon.

Rachael · 5 years ago

Oh Stacy! I hurt for you. But I really feel you are doing what is best for you and Cae. You can't do this just for her. You deserve to have someone that you love and trust. One day you will have it. And you and Cae will have your family.
You are sucha great mom. Cae is going to have a fantastic life because you are her mom. I know it hurts, but you hang in there.

NickD · 5 years ago

I love you Stacey, I'll always be here for you and Cae. I'm but a call away and a short drive.

When do I get to take you out for dinner again sweety? We may need the healing power of Fajitas if we can get you away from the boobinater for a couple of hours.

Chris · 5 years ago

I'm sorry Stacey. So so sorry. You have Cae and Cae has you. You're both pretty lucky, I think :-)

Laura from NYC · 5 years ago

It sounds as though you know what you needed to do for you and your daughter, even though it was so hard. I admire your strength. You will be ok and things will work themselves out. Take care of yourself.

Ana · 5 years ago

Stacey... wow... I know nothing can make the pain, hearbreak, sadness go away, but do know that I'm sorry you are going through this.
*sigh*
Blessings to you and Caelyn my friend.
Hugs*
Ana

Michele · 5 years ago

*hug* I am so sorry you're going through this ... somehow things will be better in the end - trust me. Cae will grow up knowing how much you love her and when you find someone worthy of the two of you she will see how much love is possible within a family. Biology does not equal family ... love does. :cry:

Lauren · 5 years ago

Oh sweetie I am so sorry. I wish I knew what to say to help but I don't. You and Caelyn ARE a family. Your love for your daughter is SO apparent. *hugs*